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Last Update :  December, 10th,2025 :07.57 PM

Almost everyone in this world, young or old, has their own mobile phone or cellphone, am I right? Teenagers today, often referred to as Generation Z, are deeply involved with social media platforms. They act almost like citizen journalists, able to record, upload, and share anything at any time they want. Social media has become a normal part of daily life now. But is that completely harmless?

What about the safety issues we face while using these platforms? My name is Asep Haryono from Indonesia, and I worked in social media for almost thirteen years. Today, I want to share what I know about safety issues on one of the most widely used social media platforms in the world: Facebook.

When people talk about social media, one question always pops up: “Is Facebook still the most popular platform for communication, or has it been overtaken by newer apps like Instagram, X (formerly Twitter), LinkedIn, and others?” The answer is a bit more layered than just yes or no. Facebook remains massive in size and influence, but its role in how people communicate has shifted over time depending on age, region, and purpose.

First, let’s talk numbers. Facebook is still a giant. With over 3 billion monthly active users worldwide, it holds the title as the largest non-messaging social media platform. That’s more than Instagram, X, LinkedIn, or even TikTok can currently claim. In other words, if you’re measuring “popularity” by sheer audience size, Facebook is still on top. People all over the world log in daily to connect with friends, join groups, share photos, and comment on posts. It’s also still a top choice for businesses, marketers, and community leaders because it reaches almost every demographic, from young adults to grandparents.

This is the front page of my personal Facebook account, which I have been using for the past ten years. I use Facebook both for business and for building friendships with people around the world.

But size isn’t the whole story. Communication styles are changing, and this is where Facebook’s dominance starts to show cracks. For example, younger generations teens and early 20s are drifting toward apps like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat, where visuals and short-form videos rule. For them, Facebook sometimes feels old-fashioned, even if they still keep an account. On the flip side, older users remain highly active on Facebook, using it not just to chat but also to manage community events, join interest-based groups, and keep up with family

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Another point to consider is the type of communication. Facebook is versatile: it offers Messenger for private chats, Groups for community interaction, Pages for businesses, and News Feed for updates and discussions. It’s almost like a one-stop shop for staying in touch. Compare that with LinkedIn, which is focused on professional networking, or X, which thrives on real-time news and trending conversations. Each platform has carved out its own niche. If you want to talk business, you open LinkedIn. If you want to share a quick thought or follow live commentary, you go to X. If you want to post photos, stories, or reels, Instagram might feel more natural.

Still, Facebook has one big advantage: familiarity. It’s been around since 2004, and most people are comfortable with how it works. That comfort often makes it the “default” tool for communication, especially in regions like Southeast Asia, Africa, and parts of Latin America where Facebook is not just social media it’s practically the internet itself.

In terms of user base and overall reach, yes, it remains a heavyweight champion. But in terms of cultural influence, youth appeal, and specialized communication, the crown is increasingly shared with other platforms. In today’s social media landscape, people no longer rely on just one app. Instead, they mix and match, using Facebook for family and community, Instagram for creativity, X for news, and LinkedIn for career connections.

How to keep your FACEBOOK account secure
Just the other day, one of my good friends came to me with a worried look on his face. He told me that he kept receiving emails from Facebook saying someone had requested to reset his password. The weird part? He never asked for it. Not even once.

At first, he thought it was just a glitch or maybe spam. But when it happened again and again, he realized something fishy was going on. He suspected that someone was trying to log into his Facebook account using his email address or phone number. When they couldn’t guess the password, they clicked on “Forgot Password” and tried to reset it. Thankfully, my friend still had access to his email, so the hacker didn’t succeed.

That experience really made me think. What if that happened to me or you? What if someone else is out there, trying to gain access to your Facebook account without you even knowing? Unfortunately, this kind of thing happens more often than we realize, and many people don’t know what to do when it does.

So, here’s what I told my friend and what I’d tell you too if you’re facing a similar issue:

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Step 1: Change Your Password Right Away
Even if no one got in, don’t take any chances. Head over to your Facebook settings and change your password immediately. Make sure it’s a strong one: use a mix of uppercase and lowercase letters, numbers, and special characters. Don’t use common passwords like "123456" or your birthday.

Step 2: Enable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA)
This is a must! Once you activate 2FA, Facebook will require a special code sent to your phone (or generated by an app) whenever someone tries to log in. It’s an extra layer of protection that makes it 10x harder for hackers to succeed.

Step 3: Review Login Activity
Facebook has a helpful tool that shows you where your account is currently logged in. You can find it under Settings > Security and Login. If you see any device or location that doesn’t look familiar, log it out right away and secure your account.

Step 4: Check Your Recovery Info
Make sure the email and phone number linked to your Facebook account are up to date and secure. If there’s anything there that you don’t recognize, delete it immediately

Step 5: Report the Issue to Facebook
Don’t just ignore it report it! Go to facebook.com/hacked and follow the steps. Facebook can help you secure your account and prevent future attacks.


My Opinions
My friend was lucky. He caught the warning signs early and secured his account in time. But not everyone is that lucky. If you’re getting random password reset emails from Facebook, take it seriously. It could be someone trying to hack into your account.

Stay safe online, use strong passwords, turn on 2FA, and always keep an eye on your login activity. Social media is funbut only when it’s secure!

Have you ever experienced suspicious activity on your Facebook account?

Share your story in the comments below!
And don’t forget to share this post with your friends because staying safe online is everyone’s business

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Tag : Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Fast Food Is Not Just a Lifestyle - Powered by Blogger

A few months ago, I stopped by Transmart Kubu Raya to redeem my Point Reward vouchers from Astra Motor Pontianak at Wendy’s and Coffee Bean.

Each point could be exchanged for one menu item at those outlets. At Wendy’s, I received a package consisting of two pieces of chicken, one portion of white rice, and a cup of cola. At Coffee Bean, I got a slice of chocolate cake (I don’t remember the exact name) and one cup of ice-blended drink—also no idea what it was called. Hahaha. I rarely eat “fancy” food like this. I’m not familiar with fast-food names, so I don’t really remember them.

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 Foto Asep Haryono / www.simplyasep.com

 Foto Asep Haryono / www.simplyasep.com

Not Just to Fill Your Stomach

This part is subjective. People go to fast-food outlets for different reasons. One thing is clear: fast-food lovers should not be judged as “junk food eaters” just because these places are often labeled as junk food.Culinary preferences come in many forms, and everyone is different. When it comes to taste especially personal taste here’s no need for debate.

Food is still food. It doesn’t matter whether it’s considered elite, like caviar served on a first-class flight. (Sorry, that’s an extreme example!) For those who don’t know, caviar is a very expensive type of fish egg. It’s one of the priciest foods in the world.But does eating caviar automatically make someone a member of the elite class? And does loving simple traditional snacks like kerupuk or bakwan make someone “lower class”? Of course not.

Even though caviar and bakwan are very different, food is still food. Many office workers love traditional snacks bakwan, kerupuk, and others even though they work in professional settings. So what really counts as “elite” food? Is it just the price? Does eating expensive food really raise someone’s social status?

Fast food, for example, doesn’t increase or decrease the prestige of the people who enjoy it. Food is simply part of human needs whether it’s to survive, to feel full, or just to enjoy eating with style. Everything is fine, and everything is valid.

Fast Food Is Not Just a Lifestyle
People often say that eating fast food is a “lifestyle.” They talk like it is simply a choice you make every day. You choose to eat burgers, fried chicken, or instant noodles because you like it, and that becomes your lifestyle. But for me, fast food is not just a lifestyle. It is much more complicated than that. There are many reasons why people eat fast food, and most of them have nothing to do with style, trends, or personal taste. They are connected to real life, real problems, and real situations.

First, fast food is about convenience. Many people today are very busy. Some work more than one job, have long commutes, or take care of children and family. After a long day, not everyone has the energy to cook. Cut vegetables? Season the meat? Wash dishes? That takes time and effort that some people just don’t have. Fast food is quick. You order, you wait a few minutes, you eat. That’s it. For many people, it becomes a solution, not a lifestyle choice.

Second, fast food is often cheaper. In many countries, including Indonesia, cooking at home is not always the cheapest option. Ingredients can be expensive. Not everyone has access to fresh vegetables or a nearby traditional market. Some people live in kosts or small apartments with limited kitchen space. Buying fast food for Rp20.000–Rp30.000 sometimes feels more practical than buying groceries, especially for people who live alone. In this situation, fast food becomes an economic decision, not a fashion statement.

Third, fast food companies know exactly how to attract us. They spend billions on advertising. They use bright colors, catchy songs, cute mascots, and special promos. Their goal is simple: make you crave their food. When you see a juicy burger on your phone or a hot crispy fried chicken on TV, your brain reacts. You start feeling hungry even if you were not hungry before. This is not about lifestyle; this is marketing. And they are very good at it.

Fourth, fast food is everywhere. In big cities, you can find it on nearly every corner. Even in smaller towns, delivery services like GoFood and GrabFood make fast food super easy to get. When something is always there, always open, and always available, people will naturally choose it. It becomes part of daily life not because people want to be “fast food people,” but because the system makes it convenient.

Of course, fast food also affects health. Many people talk about it as if eating fast food means you automatically have an unhealthy lifestyle. But I don’t fully agree. Health is not only about what you eat. It’s about sleep, stress, exercise, mental well-being, and many other habits. A person who eats fast food sometimes but exercises, drinks enough water, and gets enough rest can still be healthier than someone who cooks every day but never moves their body or sleeps only four hours a night.

So for me, fast food is not just a lifestyle. It’s a mix of many things: time pressure, economic situations, marketing influence, convenience, and modern city life. It is something that many people use to survive their busy days, not something they choose to show their identity.

In the end, the most important thing is balance. Fast food is okay sometimes. Cooking at home is good too. We don’t need to judge ourselves or others based on what we eat. Life is already stressful enough. If fast food helps you get through the day, that’s fine. Just make sure you also take care of your body in other ways. Because at the end of the day, your lifestyle is more than just what’s on your plate.

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Nature disaster in Sumatera, Indonesia - Powered by Blogger

Hello guys,  How is it going?
Happy weekend

Indonesia, my beloved country, mourns once more

Indonesia has once again been struck by a major natural disaster, and this time the impact has been especially heartbreaking. In late November 2025, several parts of Sumatra one of Indonesia’s largest islands were hit by severe floods and landslides. These disasters were triggered by days of heavy monsoon rains, made even stronger by a tropical cyclone named Senyar.

For many people around the world, Indonesia is known as a \beautiful country with rich culture, warm people, and stunning landscapes. But the same nature that makes Indonesia beautiful can also bring enormous challenges. This disaster is a clear reminder of how vulnerable many communities in Indonesia are to extreme weather..

EFFORT: Rescue efforts using a rubber boat were captured on video from a drone. (reuters/kp). Source : kaltimpost.jawapos.com

What Happened in Sumatra?

In the last week of November, extremely heavy rain fell across several provinces in Sumatra. The rainfall was far higher than usual. This sudden and powerful downpour caused: Flash floods , Landslides , Rivers overflowing ,Entire villages being submerged, Roads being cut off , Power and communication lines collapsing

According to official reports, at least 174 people have died, and about 79 are still missing. Many families have lost their homes, their land, and in some cases, their loved ones.

The most affected regions are: North Sumatra , West Sumatra and Aceh

These are large provinces with both cities and rural areas, but in all of these places, the destruction is widespread

Sumatera, Indonesia on MAPS

A Closer Look at the Damage
In total, more than 3,200 buildings have been flooded or destroyed. These include houses, schools, small shops, and places of worship. For many families, it is not just their home that is gone it is also their source of income.

Around 3,000 families have had to evacuate to temporary shelters, which are often crowded and uncomfortable. Many do not have enough clean water, food, or blankets. Some are staying in school buildings or government halls, while others are sheltering with relatives.

On top of that, many roads have turned into rivers. Rescue teams are finding it difficult to reach remote areas because: Bridges have collapsed , Main roads are blocked , Power has been cut for days and Communication networks are unstable

Entire neighborhoods have been seen underwater in drone footage. Some houses were completely swept away by the current. Many areas look like lakes instead of towns.


Why Did This Disaster Happen?

Indonesia sits in a tropical and disaster-prone region. Every year, the country experiences monsoon rains, earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, and tsunamis. But several factors made this event much worse:

1. Tropical Cyclone Senyar A rare weather event in the region, Cyclone Senyar intensified the rainfall and winds, causing sudden flash floods.

 

2. Unstable Soil In many parts of Sumatra, the soil becomes very loose during the rainy season. When the ground is saturated with water, it gives way and causes landslides.

 

3. Deforestation Illegal logging and land clearing have weakened the natural protection of forests. Trees play a big role in preventing soil erosion and absorbing rainwater. Without them, water flows quickly and violently downhill.

 

4. Climate Change In recent years, weather patterns across Southeast Asia have become more extreme. Warmer oceans and unstable atmospheric conditions have contributed to stronger storms and heavier rainfall.

 

Human Stories Behind the Disaster?
Behind the numbers are real people living through the most painful days of their lives. Many survivors say the floodwaters rose extremely fast—sometimes within minutes. People had no time to save their belongings. Some climbed trees, rooftops, or even electricity poles to escape the rushing water.

Parents carried their children on their shoulders. Elderly residents had to be lifted on makeshift rafts. A number of families were separated during the evacuation. Rescue workers reported seeing houses being pulled away by the flood. Volunteers, police, military, and local communities have been working day and night to save those trapped.


How the Government Is Responding
Indonesia’s President, Prabowo Subianto, has coordinated national relief efforts. Military aircraft have been delivering essential supplies to emergency shelters, including: Instant food , Clean water ,Tents , Medicines , Blankets and Portable toilets

Hold on.  What I meant by “portable toilets” . In disaster areas like Sumatra, many public facilities such as bathrooms and toilets are damaged, flooded, or completely inaccessible. Thousands of people are staying in temporary shelters, and without proper sanitation, the risk of disease becomes very high.

This is why the government and humanitarian teams send portable toilets to the affected locations. These mobile units are easy to set up, clean, and move. They help keep the environment hygienic and protect survivors especially children and elderly people from infections like diarrhea, skin diseases, and other health problems that often spread after floods. Hope this simple explanation can make you guys understand even better

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Search teams are still looking for people who may be missing, although the damaged roads and continued bad weather make the process difficult. The Indonesian Meteorology Agency has also warned that heavy rain may continue in the coming days, meaning that more floods and landslides are possible.


How Local Communities Are Helping Each Other
Indonesia is known for gotong royong, a cultural tradition of mutual cooperation. In times of disaster, this value becomes even more visible. People across the country have started donation campaigns. Volunteers in cities like Jakarta, Bandung, Surabaya, and Medan are collecting rice, Clothes, Milk for babies, Mats,  pillows and Hygiene kits

Many villagers who were not directly affected are helping the survivors by cooking meals, providing shelter, or helping with evacuation efforts. In disasters like these, Indonesians often say, “We are all family.” 

Why Indonesia Faces Such Frequent Disasters For readers around the globe, it is important to understand that Indonesia experiences natural disasters more often than many countries. Here are evergreen insights that will always be relevant: 

1. Indonesia is an archipelago of 17,000 islands This makes logistics difficult during disasters. Roads, bridges, and communication systems are easily cut off. 

2. The country lies on the Pacific “Ring of Fire” This region is known for earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, and active tectonic movement. 

3. The climate brings heavy rain every year Monsoon seasons are predictable, but climate change is \making the rainfall much more intense. 

4. Environmental issues worsen disasters Deforestation, unmanaged development, and land misuse reduce natural protection. 5. Disasters often hit rural, low-income communities 

These areas have limited access to strong buildings, early-warning systems, and emergency services. Understanding these long-term factors helps global readers realize why Indonesia needs consistent international support, not just attention during crisis moments.

How You Can Help
For readers abroad who wish to support Indonesians affected by this disaster, here are some ways: 

• Donate to trusted international humanitarian organizations

 

• Share verified information to raise awareness

 

• Support environmental efforts that protect forests and land

 

• Keep Indonesia in your thoughts and prayers

 

• Advocate for global climate action Even small actions can make a meaningful difference.

 

The people of Sumatra are going through one of the most difficult times in recent years. Homes can be rebuilt and roads can be repaired, but the emotional wounds losing loved ones, memories, and livelihoods take much longer to heal.

Yet, Indonesians are known for their strength, unity, and resilience. As the waters slowly recede and recovery begins, the spirit of gotong royong, compassion, and courage continues to shine. With the support of global friends like you, Indonesia will rise again stronger, wiser, and more prepared for the future. 

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Tag : Keseharian, Wisata Kuliner - Asep Haryono | Bubur Pedas Sambas , The Timeless Taste of Togetherness - Powered by Blogger

Hello everyone. For the past few weeks, I’ve enjoyed posting foodie content and dish reviews, especially for Indonesian audiences to learn more about our local cuisine. However, fellow bloggers from around the world are also very welcome to explore our national treasures, local dishes, and the stories behind them.

Today, I’d like to introduce you to one of our flavorful culinary heritages from Sambas, West Kalimantan, Indonesia a dish that brings warmth, unity, and memories in every spoon: Bubur Pedas, or spicy porridge.

Let’s discover it together

A Dish Born from Tradition
Where is Sambas? Sambas is a historic regency located in the northern part of West Kalimantan, Indonesia, near the border with Sarawak, Malaysia. Known for its Malay cultural roots, lush tropical landscapes, and rich river systems, Sambas is one of the oldest cultural regions in Borneo.

The area is famous for its traditional foods, royal heritage, and warm community traditions. Although not as widely known as major Indonesian cities, Sambas offers a unique blend of history, nature, and authentic local cuisine making it a hidden gem for anyone who wants to explore the true heart of Kalimantan.

In the heart of Sambas, West Kalimantan, lies a humble yet extraordinary dish known as Bubur Pedas a porridge that speaks the language of tradition, unity, and comfort. Although “pedas” means spicy in Indonesian, this dish is not necessarily fiery hot. Instead, it gets its name from the rich blend of herbs and spices that create a warm, comforting, and unforgettable aroma.

Sambas, West Kalimantan,INDONESIA On Map

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Bubur Pedas is believed to have originated from the Malay community in Sambas, where it has been passed down through generations. It’s a dish that reflects the spirit of gotong royong working together because it’s often prepared in large batches during community events, Ramadan, or festive gatherings. Everyone contributes: some chop vegetables, others roast rice or prepare spices. It’s not just cooking it’s togetherness in action.


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The Signature Flavor of Sambas
Bubur Pedas (often spelled Bubbor Padas in local dialect) is a very special and beloved traditional dish from Sambas, West Kalimantan. Despite the name “pedas” meaning spicy, it’s not always overwhelmingly hot the “spicy” part usually refers to the rich blend of herbs and spices used, not just chili.

It’s a savory rice porridge made with ground rice cooked together with finely chopped vegetables such as fern tips (paku), long beans, bamboo shoots, sweet potato leaves, and various local greens. The mixture is enriched with ground roasted rice, which gives it a distinct nutty flavor and thicker texture compared to ordinary porridge.

The aroma comes from a mix of local herbs and spices lemongrass, galangal, turmeric, ginger, and garlic all cooked together in coconut milk or water. Traditionally, it’s served with fried anchovies (ikan teri), roasted peanuts, and fried shallots on top.

Bubur Pedas isn’t just food; it’s a symbol of togetherness, often cooked in large batches during Ramadan, community gatherings, or traditional celebrations in Sambas and nearby regions like Sarawak, Malaysia, where the recipe has also become popular.

A Symphony of Ingredients and Flavor
What makes Bubur Pedas truly special is its unique preparation. The base starts with roasted rice that is ground until fine, giving the porridge a thicker, nuttier texture. This is then cooked with fresh vegetables fern tips, long beans, bamboo shoots, cassava leaves, and sweet potato leaves along with aromatic spices like lemongrass, turmeric, galangal, ginger, and garlic.

When simmered together, the ingredients create a warm, earthy, and herbal flavor that’s unlike any other porridge in Indonesia. To finish it off, it’s topped with fried anchovies, roasted peanuts, and crispy shallots a delightful combination of crunch, aroma, and taste.

More Than Just a Meal
For the people of Sambas, Bubur Pedas is more than food it’s a symbol of unity, care, and gratitude. It’s a reminder of simpler times when families gathered to share one big pot of porridge after a long day of fasting or during community celebrations.

Even today, many families in Sambas and even across the border in Sarawak, Malaysia continue this tradition. Each household might have its own version, slightly different in ingredients or taste, but the heart of the dish remains the same: sharing warmth and kindness through food.


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My Own Experience
Yesterday, I had the pleasure of enjoying Bubur Pedas once again and it reminded me why this dish never fades from memory. The moment the first spoon touched my tongue, I could taste the harmony of roasted rice, fresh greens, and that subtle hint of spice. The aroma alone brought back childhood memories and the comforting feeling of being home.

I took two photos at below

A serving of Bubur Pedas Sambas enjoyed at home  rich with vegetables, herbs, and roasted rice, paired with warm rice and fried tofu for a complete local meal. Photo by Asep Haryono

A close-up look at Bubur Pedas  showcasing its fresh greens, aromatic spices, and hearty texture that make this Sambas specialty so distinctive and comforting. Photo by Asep Haryono

As I captured the above photos for my blog at above,

I realized something Bubur Pedas isn’t just delicious; it’s a living story of Sambas itself. It’s proof that simplicity, when touched by love and heritage, can become timeless.

Why Bubur Pedas Will Always Matter
In a world that keeps changing, Bubur Pedas stands as an evergreen treasure of West Kalimantan. It’s a dish that connects generations, reminding us that food is more than just nourishment it’s identity, memory, and pride.

So, the next time you visit West Kalimantan, don’t miss the chance to taste Bubur Pedas. Let it tell you its story one spoonful at a time.

Have you ever tasted something like Bubur Pedas before? Share your story or memory about this unique dish in the comments or tag me on social media with your own Bubur Pedas moment! Let’s celebrate this Sambas treasure together 

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | My Opinion About Thanksgiving: The Spirit of Gratitude and Global Traditions - Powered by Blogger

Thanksgiving isn’t commonly celebrated in Southeast Asian countries, including Indonesia, because the holiday is deeply rooted in North American history and culture. It originated from early European settlers in the United States and Canada who held harvest feasts to give thanks. Since these events are not part of Southeast Asia’s historical or cultural background, the tradition didn’t develop here.

Thanksgiving is celebrated abroad on the fourth Thursday of November. This year, it falls on November 27, 2025. It’s a special day to give thanks, share meals, and enjoy time with family and friends

In countries like Indonesia, my country for sure, people have their own cultural celebrations related to gratitude and harvest such as Syukuran, Selamatan, or local harvest festivals so Thanksgiving doesn’t naturally fit into the local cultural calendar.

However, the influence of Western media and global culture means some people in Southeast Asia now enjoy Thanksgiving-themed content, special dinners, or sales promotions, even if the holiday itself isn’t officially celebrated.

OUR VERSION OF THANKSGIVING Members of the community enjoy a simple and heartfelt syukuran feast at the mosque, enjoying meals and coffee,   a beautiful display of gratitude and togetherness. Photo by Asep Haryono

For the US people or many European countries, you probably know that Thanksgiving is one of the most celebrated holidays of the year. As far as I concern, Families gather, delicious food fills the table, and people take time to reflect on what they are grateful for. But in Southeast Asia, including my home country Indonesia, Thanksgiving is not widely celebrated.


So, why is that, and what can we learn from it?
Even though Thanksgiving is not part of our local tradition, its ideas are universal. The core message of this holiday gratitude, family, sharing, and togetherness resonates with everyone. Let’s explore what makes Thanksgiving so special, how it is celebrated in other countries, and how we can take inspiration from it in our own lives.

Thanksgiving has its roots in North America. The story goes back to the early 1600s when European settlers, known as the Pilgrims, arrived in what is now the United States. Life was hard in the new land. The settlers struggled with harsh weather, unfamiliar crops, and the challenges of building a community from scratch.

After their first successful harvest, they held a feast to give thanks for the food, safety, and help from the local Native Americans. This event is often considered the first Thanksgiving. Over time, Thanksgiving became an annual celebration, eventually becoming a national holiday in the United States in 1863, during President Abraham Lincoln’s time.

Although the history is very American, the lesson is universal: celebrating gratitude and the good things in life. And that is something everyone can relate to, no matter where you live.


Iconic Thanksgiving Traditions
One of the most fun parts of Thanksgiving is how it is celebrated. Some traditions are well-known around the world, and others are uniquely American.

Food is the heart of Thanksgiving. The centerpiece is usually a roasted turkey, often served with stuffing, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, and gravy. Sweet treats like pumpkin pie and pecan pie are also very popular. Some families have their own unique twist on these dishes, adding regional flavors or family recipes that have been passed down for generations.

Family and Friends are a big part of the celebration. Many people travel long distances to gather for the holiday. It is a time for reconnecting, sharing meals, telling stories, and enjoying each other’s company.

Fun Activities include watching parades on television, American football games, or volunteering at local charities. Some families even start the day with a “Turkey Trot,” which is a fun run or walk to celebrate the holiday and stay active.

Even outside the United States, Thanksgiving has inspired local versions in other countries. For example, in Canada, the holiday is celebrated in October, and some countries like Japan and the Philippines have adapted certain aspects of the holiday, mostly food-centered celebrations or school events about gratitude.


The Universal Message: Gratitude
While the turkey and parades are fun, the most important part of Thanksgiving is gratitude. It’s about pausing your busy life and reflecting on what you have family, friends, health, or simply daily blessings.

This message is very relatable in my country Indonesia and Southeast Asia. We may not celebrate Thanksgiving officially, but we have our own ways of showing gratitude. For example, Indonesians have Syukuran, a ceremony to give thanks for blessings, or Selamatan, a communal celebration often held for birthdays, harvests, or other milestones. These traditions, like Thanksgiving, bring people together, celebrate what we have, and foster a sense of community.

Practicing gratitude doesn’t need a holiday. Even small actions can make a big difference:

• Share a meal with your family or neighbors.

 

• Reflect on what you are thankful for at the end of each day.

 

• Volunteer or help someone in need.

 

These are all ways to bring the spirit of Thanksgiving into everyday life


Global Influence and Modern Adaptations
In today’s global world, Thanksgiving is slowly becoming more visible outside North America. Western movies, TV shows, and social media have introduced the holiday to people around the world. Some restaurants and cafes in Southeast Asia even offer Thanksgiving-themed meals in November, giving locals a chance to experience a taste of the tradition.

Many people also enjoy the idea of Thanksgiving without waiting for the fourth Thursday of November. They can host a special dinner, bake a pumpkin pie, or gather friends and family simply to express gratitude. The important thing is the spirit of the holiday, not the exact date.

This adaptability makes Thanksgiving content very relatable for global audiences. People everywhere are interested in learning about other cultures while connecting it to their own life experiences.


Why Thanksgiving Matters
So, why should we care about Thanksgiving, even if we don’t officially celebrate it in Indonesia?

Thanksgiving reminds us to pause and reflect on our blessings. It emphasizes family, friends, and community values that are universal. And it encourages acts of kindness, sharing, and helping others.

Even if I never eat turkey or watch an American football game, I can still celebrate the essence of Thanksgiving. For example, I can:

• Host a “Gratitude Dinner” with my family.

 

• Write down three things I am thankful for every day.

 

• Volunteer at a local charity or community event.

These small actions help us live happier, more connected, and more meaningful lives. And in a world where many people focus on what they lack, Thanksgiving or simply the idea of gratitude offers a refreshing reminder of what really matters.

By writing about Thanksgiving from this angle, I hope I don’t just teach Indonesian readers about a foreign holiday, I inspire them to adopt values and habits that improve our own lives

My Experience of our version of the thanksgiving
In Indonesia, we have a wonderful tradition of sharing food with our neighbors, and I’ve realized it is very much like the spirit of Thanksgiving celebrated in the United States. In our communities, it’s common to exchange meals as a way of showing kindness and appreciation.

For example, I might prepare a simple plate of homemade dishesvegetables, rendang, or a local cake and deliver it to my neighbor. In return, they often give me food in exchange, sometimes the same dish, sometimes something different.

This small act is more than just sharing meals; it is a reflection of togetherness, care, and mutual respect. Through this practice, we celebrate not only the food itself but also the relationships and connections that make our community stronger.

Personally, this has become my way of adopting the spirit of Thanksgiving. Even though we don’t officially celebrate the holiday in Indonesia, these exchanges remind me of its core message: gratitude, generosity, and the joy of giving.

Every time I share food or receive something in return, I feel a sense of warmth and connection that is universal. It shows that the essence of Thanksgiving appreciating what we have and sharing it with others can be embraced anywhere, in any culture.


Conclusion
Thanksgiving may not be widely celebrated in Southeast Asia, but its core message is universal. Gratitude, family, community, and giving back are values that transcend cultures and borders. Whether it’s through food, tradition, or simple daily practices, we can all embrace the spirit of Thanksgiving in our own way.

This November or any time of the year take a moment to reflect on your blessings, share a meal with loved ones, or help someone in need. That is the heart of Thanksgiving, and it is a tradition that everyone, anywhere, can appreciate.

So, even if I don’t eat turkey or watch a parade, I can still celebrate the holiday by being thankful and sharing that gratitude with the people around me. After all, the spirit of Thanksgiving is not just a day it’s a way of life.

How do you express gratitude in your daily life?
Share your favorite way to celebrate thankfulness in the comments below, and let’s inspire each other

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In 2009, I visited Tangkuban Perahu, one of the most famous volcanoes in Bandung,West Java. Until today, this trip is still one of my favorite travel memories. It was not only about seeing a volcano. It was also about culture, people, foggy mountain weather, and relaxing in natural hot springs. In this article, I want to share my simple story, and maybe it can also inspire foreign readers to visit this amazing place right here in Indonesia one day.

When you take a picture with the sign just to prove to everyone you really made it to Tangkuban Perahu. Bandung’s coolest entrance board, and
 I matched its energy with my biggest smile.


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Hold on. Where is Tangkuban Perahu? Well. It’s one of West Java’s most famous volcanoes, located just about 30 km north of Bandung, the capital city of the province. The name means “Upside-Down Boat,” inspired by a popular Sundanese legend.

It’s very easy to reach visitors can take a 1–1.5 hour car ride from Bandung, passing through beautiful tea plantations and cool mountain roads. Unlike many volcanoes that require long hiking, Tangkuban Perahu is unique because you can drive almost all the way to the crater, making it one of the most accessible active volcanoes in Indonesia.

The volcano sits at around 2,084 meters above sea level and offers dramatic crater views, misty mountain air, and a strong smell of sulfur that reminds you this is a living volcano. The area also has a mild, refreshing climate that’s very different from Indonesia’s tropical heat.

Nearby attractions include Sari Ater Hot Springs, local souvenir markets, and traditional Sundanese cultural experiences. For bloggers and travelers who want both adventure and comfort, Tangkuban Perahu is a perfect day trip that combines nature, culture, and an unforgettable volcano landscape.

Before reaching the volcano, my friends and I were surprised by a traditional Sundanese performance. Several men wore bright red and blue clothes, and they carried a wooden lion figure on their shoulders. A tourist was sitting on top of the lion, smiling and enjoying the moment. The music, the colors, and the energy of the dancers made the atmosphere feel very alive.


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I did not expect to see this kind of cultural show, but this is something special about West Java. The Sundanese people are known for their friendliness, polite behavior, and rich traditions. For foreign visitors, this kind of welcome performance is something unforgettable because it shows that Indonesia is not only about beaches it is also full of deep culture.

Standing on the Edge of an Active Volcano
When we finally reached the top of Tangkuban Perahu, the weather suddenly changed. The air became cold, the wind stronger, and a thick fog slowly covered the area. I could smell sulfur in the air, and the sound of boiling gas came from the crater.

Standing there, I looked down into the huge crater. The rocky ground was gray and black, and the center looked like dried mud mixed with steam. It felt like standing on another planet. It was quiet, but also powerful. I could feel the energy of the Earth under my feet.

Standing at the edge of Tangkuban Perahu’s crater… nature’s power feels incredibly real and breathtaking

Crater view.Tangkuban Perahu’s crater. Photo by Asep Haryono

“Please don’t jump or fall here. Comply with all rules.
Your safety is your No. 1 priority.”

 

What makes Tangkuban Perahu special is that it is easy to visit. Many volcanoes in the world require long and difficult hiking, but here, you can drive almost to the top. This makes it perfect for families, casual tourists, and visitors who want adventure without needing professional hiking skills.


Shopping at the Mountain Market
Near the crater, I saw a long row of colorful mountain hats made from furry material. They looked warm and soft, and some designs were very unique. Local sellers also offered scarves, jackets, toys, and small souvenirs.

Local mountain souvenirs. Cozy mountain vibes! Local vendors selling soft, warm hoods perfect for the cool weather at Tangkuban Perahu. Photo by Asep Haryono

These small shops show another side of mountain life. Many families around the area earn money by selling handmade items to visitors. It is interesting for foreign tourists because they can see what local people create and also buy something to take home as a memory.

Misty Weather and a Beautiful Atmosphere
The cool fog made the whole place feel mysterious and peaceful. Many visitors walked around, taking photos, talking, and enjoying the cold weather. I remember smiling because I felt so relaxed. The mountain air was fresh, and the scenery looked different every few minutes as the fog moved.
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Misty mountain moment. A foggy morning at Tangkuban Perahu. Quiet, mysterious, and beautifully calming

When your horse shows up with better hair than you
This pink-maned superstar at Tangkuban Perahu definitely stole the spotlight (and maybe my confidence a little)

You could have used this local transportation
Photo by Asep Haryono

This is something foreign readers may find surprising Indonesia is a tropical country, but places like Tangkuban Perahu can be very cold and misty. It gives a different experience from beaches and hot cities like Jakarta or Surabaya.


Relaxing at Sari Ater Hot Springs
After exploring the volcano, we continued our journey to Sari Ater Hot Spring Resort, not far from Tangkuban Perahu. The warm water felt perfect after standing in the cold mountain area. The hot springs contain natural minerals from the volcano, and many people believe the water is good for relaxing the muscles and improving circulationnnn

Sari Ater Hot Spring Water is one of Subang’s natural tourist attractions that you must visit when traveling to Subang, West Java, Indonesia. You can pamper yourself here and relieve stress with its relaxing hot spring pools. Besides enjoying the hot springs, you can also take in the beautiful mountain views and try the various activities available in the area.

Below are the complete operating hours:
Opening Hours Monday – Friday: 8:00 AM WIB – 10:00 PM WIB

Saturday – Sunday: 8:00 AM WIB – 12:00 AM WIB

It’s best to avoid visiting Ciater Hot Spring Water at night, as it tends to be crowded with people coming for a relaxing soak after work. The best time to visit is on weekdays, preferably in the late morning or afternoon.

A memorable moment with Sundanese performers capturing the spirit of West Java’s traditional cultural attraction near Tangkuban Perahu.

A vibrant Sundanese cultural performance at Tangkuban Perahu  visitors can experience being lifted on a lion-shaped Reog-style carriage while dancers showcase traditional West Javanese art. Photo by Asep Haryono

Hot spring resort. A refreshing stop at Sari Ater Hot Springs  warm water, cool air, and the perfect way to relax after visiting Tangkuban Perahu

The resort has pools, gardens, and comfortable places to sit. It is a wonderful way to finish a day of adventure. Foreign visitors often love the idea of combining nature, culture, and wellness in one trip, and Sari Ater is exactly that.


Why Tangkuban Perahu Is Worth Visiting
For me, Tangkuban Perahu is more than just a volcano. It is a complete travel experience. In one day, you can enjoy: • Traditional Sundanese culture • A dramatic active volcanic crater • Cool mountain weather • Local souvenirs and mountain products • Relaxing natural hot springs It is perfect for tourists who want to see a different side of Indonesia a side filled with nature, culture, and unique local experiences.


Let’s visit Tankuban Perahu Mountain
Even though my trip was in 2009, the memories are still clear. Every part of the journey was special. If you love culture, nature, photography, or simply want to feel something different, Tangkuban Perahu is a great place to visit.

I hope my simple story can help foreign readers understand what makes this mountain so interesting. Maybe one day, you will also stand on the crater’s edge, feel the cold wind, watch the fog around you, and enjoy the amazing power of nature.


DOs and DON’Ts When Visiting Tangkuban Perahu

DOs
First, bring a jacket or warm clothes. The weather is cold, windy, and sometimes very foggy. Second, stay on the official walking paths. Some areas around the crater are unsafe, so follow the signs.

Third, support local sellers politely. If you don’t want to buy anything, a simple “Tidak, terima kasih” (No, thank you) is enough. Fourth, take your time to enjoy the scenery. The crater views, mist, and mountain atmosphere are perfect for photos and relaxing. Fifth, drink enough water.

The high altitude can make you tired or thirsty faster. Sixth, visit nearby attractions. Sari Ater Hot Springs is a great place to unwind after exploring. Seventh, bring cash. Local stalls rarely accept cards, so cash makes things easier.


DON’Ts
First, don’t step too close to the crater edge. The ground can be soft, slippery, or unstable. Second, don’t ignore sulfur gas warnings. If the sulfur smell becomes strong or you feel dizzy, move to a more open area. Third, don’t litter. Keep the mountain clean by throwing trash in the proper place.

Fourth, don’t feed wild animals. Monkeys sometimes appear, and feeding them can make them aggressive. Fifth, don’t bargain too aggressively. Negotiate politely if you want, but don’t be rude to local sellers. Sixth, don’t visit during heavy rain or when there is a volcanic alert. Check weather and safety information before going


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Tangkuban Perahu stands at around 2,084 meters above sea level, offering cool weather, stunning volcanic views, and easy access for all kinds of travelers. Tangkuban Perahu is located in West Java, not far from the city of Bandung.

For travelers coming from Bandung, the mountain can be reached easily by car, usually within one to one and a half hours. The journey itself is beautiful, taking you through rolling tea plantations, cool mountain air, and peaceful green scenery.

The entrance area is well-organized, making it a comfortable and convenient destination for both local and international visitors. Standing at about 2,084 meters above sea level, Tangkuban Perahu offers refreshing cool weather, dramatic volcanic views, and easy access for travelers of all ages and experience levels.


Additional Information for Travelers (Updated 2025)
If you are planning a trip to Tangkuban Perahu, here are some updated and practical details to help you prepare. The best time to visit the mountain is during the dry season, which usually runs from April to October.

During these months, the weather is clearer, the crater view is more visible, and the chance of sudden rain is much lower. Mornings are also the ideal time to come, because the air is fresher and the fog has not yet covered the mountain.

Many visitors also enjoy relaxing at Sari Ater Hot Springs, located not far from Tangkuban Perahu. Ticket prices may vary depending on the package, but generally entrance fees start from around IDR 50,000 to IDR 70,000. Some special pools or private areas may cost a bit more, so it’s always good to check the latest prices on platforms like Traveloka or Tiket.com before your visit.

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You will also find many street vendors selling warm hats, fur-style hoods, and other souvenirs near the mountain area. Prices can be negotiated, and most items usually range between IDR 50,000 and IDR 150,000, depending on the quality. It’s a fun way to support local sellers while taking home a unique memory from your trip.


Have you ever visited an active volcano before? Share your experience or questions in the comments below

I’d love to hear your stories! 

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"